Miss Lachlyn is 4 months old… also known for the notorious 4-month sleep regression. I thought this was just a myth… like the Terrible Two’s… are all babies really terrible at age 2? For us, month 4 started out great; our bedtime routine seemed to have set a pattern. Bath time was at 7 pm, then we’d read a few books and by 8 pm she was nursing. She would fall asleep while nursing, I’d unlatch her and swaddle, rock her a few times and she’d be out by 8:30 – 9:00 pm. Life was good!
Starting about 3 days ago, things have changed. Our little bedtime routine went to hell. Still, bath time around 7 pm, read a few books, nurse her and she’d start to fall asleep. On goes the swaddle and next thing I know, she is crying soo hard her face turns red. Woah! This isn’t normal… for her. Okay, let’s switch positions and stand up to talk around. Nope, she doesn’t like being cradled while walking. Okay, lets hold her vertically, maybe she’ll get sleepy and lay her head on my chest. Nope, wide awake. Hmm… I know she’s tired. She’s been yawning and was rubbing her eyes before I swaddled her. I place her in her crib and turn on her seahorse. She stares at it, laying there. The song ends and she’s still wide awake… okay, let’s turn it on again. She doesn’t even make it half way through before fussing because she doesn’t like laying on her back. Pick her back up. I should probably note here that Lachlyn is not a pacifier kind of gal. She just doesn’t like sucking on one.
Hmm… what should I do now? I rotate through the moves again, all while she is either crying/screaming or quiet, but wide eyed. Usually by now 1.5-2 hours has gone by with nothing. I try nursing her again… with a little fussing, she finally falls asleep. I unlatch and place her in the crib. She sometimes stirs after 30 mins needing a few mins of rocking, sometimes not.
How can I get this baby to fall asleep on her own without nursing??? I mean this is a 3 question mark kind of question! I have been reading the No Cry Sleep Solution, by the way… will be trying the Pantley method.
Any suggestions, give them to me!